From time to time there are tragedies that stop each of us in our tracks. It is difficult to know what to say, or how to process the images and stories that come across our TV screens, invading our thoughts with the senselessness and cruelty of actions beyond our comprehension. Harder still is the task of talking to our children about these events, helping them to feel safe and alleviating any anxiety they may experience as a result of such terrible news.
Below is a list of resources that can provide strategies and talking points for helping parents, guardians, teachers, and other adults in talking to children about tragedy.
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- Helping Our Children Feel Safe – PBS Arthur program helps parents explain upsetting and frightening events to young children
- Talking with Kids About News – PBS
- Communication Strategies – PBS
- 5 Tips on Talking to Children About Scary News – CNN
- How To Talk To Kids About Tragedies In The Media – Child Development Institute
- Talking about Tragic Events – Children’s Trust Fund
- Helping Children Cope with Tragedy Related Anxiety – Mental Health America
- A National Tragedy: Helping Children Cope – NASP Resources